திருமண பொருத்தம் ( Marriage Matching )
திருமண பொருத்தம்
Marriage Matching
Marriage Horoscope Matching
Horoscope matching is the process of comparing the birth charts (Jathagam/Kundali) of the bride and groom to check marital compatibility. It analyzes nakshatra poruthams, planetary positions, doshas (like Kuja Dosha), 7th house strength, and Dasa periods to assess harmony and stability in married life
Peyar Porutham (Name Compatibility)
Compatibility was checked based on the first letters of the bride’s and groom’s names, linking them to nakshatras and sound vibrations.
Jathagam Porutham (Horoscope Matching)
Birth horoscopes were compared using nakshatra poruthams, doshas, and planetary positions to assess marital compatibility
Why Horoscope Matching is requires?
- To check emotional and mental compatibility
- To identify doshas or potential marital problems
- To assess longevity of marriage
- To evaluate financial, health, and progeny prospects
- To ensure overall karmic alignment for a stable and happy married life
Different traditional methods in Marriage matching
Pookatti Vaithu Parthal (Divine Consent through Flowers)
Two flowers of different colors (usually white and red) are wrapped separately in identical packets of cloth or paper and placed before the deity
A child or a neutral person is asked to pick one packet. Beforehand, the family decides which color represents “Yes” and which represents “No.” If the “Yes” color is picked, it is seen as the god’s direct command to proceed with the marriage
Kuri Kettal & Poosai (Divine Oracles)
During a special puja, families watch for specific omens, such as a lizard chirping in a certain direction or a flower falling from the right side of the deity
a priest or oracle sought a divine sign (kuri). The indication received was considered the deity’s permission or warning.
Important charts in Marriage Matching
- Rasi Chart (D1 – Birth Chart):
The main horoscope based on date, time, and place of birth.
It shows overall personality, 7th house (marriage), Venus, Mars (Kuja Dosha), and general marital promise. It is the foundation for compatibility analysis.
- Navamsha Chart (D9):
The most important divisional chart for marriage.
It reveals the strength of the spouse, quality of married life, and the true strength of planets related to relationships. D9 confirms whether marriage will be stable and harmonious.
- Sapthamsa Chart (D7):
Primarily related to children and progeny.
In marriage matching, it is checked to assess fertility potential, childbirth prospects, and happiness through children
Rasi & Lagna Porutham
Rasi Porutham
The janma rasi (birth sign) of both partners should match well, avoiding the challenging 6th and 8th house positions. The rasi defines the fundamental nature and character of a person.
Lagna Porutham
The Lagna(Ascendant) is the foundation of the horoscope, reflecting the individual’s personality and appearance. Avoiding the 6th and 8th houses here is crucial for a successful match.
Type of Dosham will Affect Marriage Life
Rahu / Ketu Dosham:
Rahu or Ketu placed in the 7th house, or afflicting Venus, Moon, or 7th lord, creates Rahu/Ketu Dosham. It may cause misunderstanding between couples, sudden relationship problems, delay in marriage, trust issues, and unconventional marital situations. This Dosham indicates karmic lessons in married life.
Chevvai Dosham (Manglik Dosha):
Occurs when Mars is positioned in marriage-related houses (1, 2, 4, 7, 8, 12). It may lead to late marriage, anger issues, dominance problems, conflicts between spouses, and adjustment difficulties if horoscope matching is not properly done.
Kala Sarpa Dosham:
Formed when all planets are placed between Rahu and Ketu. This Dosham can create unexpected hurdles, emotional stress, delay in marriage, instability in family life, and repeated struggles before marital settlement.
Mangalya Dosham:
Occurs when the 8th house, 7th house, Venus, or Jupiter is severely afflicted by malefic planets. It affects marital stability, spouse well-being, and longevity of married life, sometimes indicating separation or health concerns of partner.
Puthira Dosham:
Caused by affliction to the 5th house, 5th lord, or Jupiter. This Dosham may result in delay in childbirth, fertility issues, miscarriage possibilities, or challenges related to children.
Punarpu Dosham or Poonarpu Dosham:
Occurs due to the association or aspect between Saturn and Moon. It leads to postponement of marriage, repeated alliance breaks, emotional dissatisfaction, and mental stress in relationships.
திருமணத்தை தாமதப்படுத்தும் தோஷங்கள்:
Sani Dosam (சனி தோஷம்):
Saturn Placed in 2,5,7,9,11 from langna or Chandra can delay marriage.
Punarpoo Dosham (புனர்பூ தோஷம்):
Causes delays or obstacles in marriage due to planetary combinations of Saturn and moon.
Important Doshas That Affect Marriage
(திருமணத்தை பாதிக்கும் தோஷங்கள்)
Chevvai Dosam (செவ்வாய் தோஷம்):
Occurs when Mars is positioned in specific houses (1st, 2nd, 4th, 7th, 8th, or 12th). It can cause issues in marriage, but remedies can neutralize its effects
Rahu/Ketu Dosam (ராகு-கேது தோஷம்):
Occurs when Rahu/Ketu Positioed in (1-7) or (2-8) Bavas. This dosha may cause delays in marriage or create hurdles in marital life, affecting overall happiness and stability.
Kala Sarpa Dosham(கால சர்ப்ப தோஷம்):
Occurrs when all planets placed in once side of Rahu/Ketu Axis other side will be Empty. Growth will be After 36 years. Unhappy marriage life
Puthira Dosham (புத்திர தோஷம்):
Causes problems related to progeny. It arises due to ancestral curses or planetary influences, creating obstacles in progeny-related matters.
Mangalya Dosham(மாங்கல்ய தோஷம்):
Leads to instability in the marriage bond. Mangalya Dosham creates challenges that may lead to instability and disharmony in the marital relationship.
Two Marriage Dosham (இரண்டு திருமண அமைப்பு):
Indicates factors that can lead to a second marriage.Mangalya Dosham may result in marital instability and disharmony, to a harmonious relationship.
